My dating “game” irl update

It is time for another update when it comes to my dating life. Firstly, I cannot believe that I have managed to be so busy with dating as of late. I swear, this summer has been the most active dating phase of my life thus far. And i love it! Honestly, it is just great getting to know new people, and to fill my evenings with some socializing. Don’t get me wrong, game design and studies gets the priority when it needs to, and i do enjoy that quite a lot.

Either way, i have met with several girls this summer. Some have been more interesting than others, but thats just normal. Some have stuck around longer, some for just a date. All of that; fair. What i will have to say though, is that everyone should get more than 1 chance. For me, it has worked out great either way as of now, but still. Everyone should be given two dates. People get nervous, they don’t know how to talk in such a setting, and sometimes it can straight up feel awkward as heck.

My advice would be to give people a second chance, unless the first date was a total car-crash (which is RARE!!!). In our lives, we will extremely rarely feel that “spark” from the first awkward meeting and conversation. Sure thing, some fall in love at first sight - but that happens to a few, not most people. So give it some time.

Currently, i am actively dating - and i have someone that i am seeing frequently. “Do you juggle multiple?” - well, I am dating. I do have a hard time catching those “magical” feelings this time around, but we’ll see. Something i have to work on, i assume. Still - this is great, and i believe that everyone involved is also having a good time.

Summer was great - and i hope this will carry on onwards into the fall months.
Unless i get super tired of this stuff, we’ll see.
So far - quite fun.

John