Date “from above”? Not really…

Hi all! So, as you all know - I’m dating again. For about a week, i talked to this religious girl (that is not bad, in any way!).
We went out to a restaurant on date 1, and to the movies on date 2.
To be honest, this here can be kept very short: there was no spark. No attraction what so ever.
Not even as much as a single spark. We gave each other the benefit of the doubt, but still.
In the end, we both agreed on that there were no emotions or further interest from either side
- which is fair, totally fair. None of us wasting time!

What brought us further apart than closer together, must have been the fact that we have lived our lives so differently. Whilst i have been “exploring” a bit more, moved around, experienced different people and ways of life, she has not. She has been staying put pretty much at the same spot (even same house, lol) in the last 26 years. Which to me is just insane, to be honest.

We have been given legs to explore. To move. Not to be rude, but one other detail; she obviously haven’t been using those legs in any sense possible. She was big. She was fat, and yes, i just wrote that. That body was not healthy at freaking all!
I tend to not care too much about appearances - but as every other human being, of course it comes into play.
She said that she was working on improving her health, with dieting and exercise. Throughout this one week we were chatting, she skipped the gym 3/3 days… on days that she planned to go, but “something happened” stuff.
Fair, life happens, but then we just start it later on. Either way, she has been neglecting herself for the past 20 years, saying that she will now change - but showing that she clearly does not mean business about it at all.

If anything, it just makes me sad. And no, i do not expect my future partner to be a “gym-rat” or athlete in any way.
What i do hope and wish for though, is someone who actually takes somewhat care of themselves. That stays true to their plans and goals, and actually have something they are working towards - some ambition, what ever that may be.

Either way - no date 3 here. two dates settled it.
A BIG “Thank God” to that (oh… shouldn’t write that! oh well…)

John